How am I going to fit this all in in one day?

Could you take a flexi day off once a week, fortnight or month and make all the appointments coincide on this day? Some work places might let you have half a day off a week to get your child to his appointments if you have fully disclosed the situation. You will probably need to meet with these people providing their services and find out how often they need to meet with you and your son and where. One step at a time Hun, look only to the first step, then the next. If you look too far ahead it seems like too much and too hard. In two months I had a babby, my son had surgery twice and I sat two exams. Once you work out your plan you will be fine.